Monday, February 20, 2012

Is it too much to ask that he comes home at a decent time?

I'm 18 weeks pregnant and he insists on staying out all night. Am I asking to much to have him come home when the bar closes? I don't mind him hanging out with his friends but I think its inacceptable to stay out till 6 in the morning when I'm at home waiting and worrying.Is it too much to ask that he comes home at a decent time?
No it isn't, he has responsibilities now he can't have the best of both worlds. You do the same and teach him a lesson. I know you are not up to going out but even go to your parents' house for the night and let him worry about you then he will be in your shoes for a change, actions speak louder than words sometimes.
Did he stay out just this once? Or was he staying out till about 6am many times? (When I say 'many times', I mean about 3-4 times a week)

It is not too much to ask your husband to come home at a decent time, especially with you being pregnant. But if he stayed out till that late only once or twice, then STOP whining! Just because you are pregnant does not mean he has to be 'imprisoned'! He needs his space too. It is not as if he was seeing someone else or fooling around. He was just hanging out with his friends. Give him a break!

But if he is doing this often, then perhaps he might be doing this to avoid you and especially the baby. He might not be ready to be a father, and could even possibly feeling resentment against you both.

I am a woman, who used to run a pub business for families. So I have seen plenty enough to know.

Hope things turn out well for you.

Good Luck.Is it too much to ask that he comes home at a decent time?
He seems like a real catch, he shouldn't be going to the bars anyways if he is with you and especially having a baby on the way. You should let him know how you feel about him being out so much and late it's not right at all. You definitely aren't asking much, if he really cares he will stop it.
That's totally irresponsible and inconsiderate, and it doesn't sound like this guy is ready to be a father. What a jerk. You are totally in line to make that request and it is definitely not too much to ask, especially when you are carrying his future child.Is it too much to ask that he comes home at a decent time?
Bars and clubs close at 2. Where is he from 4-6? He should have some respect for the mother of his unborn child! He needs to learn how to be responsible. It doesn't look like he is ready to be a father.
is he an alcoholic? sounds like one...bars close by 2am...where is he sfter that...if he is an alcoholic...sorry your in it for some pain and misery

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