Should my christian boyfriend be hanging out in bars and leaving me and the kids at home.?

I have a real problem with my boyfriend going to bars. We have been together for almost 6 years and before he accepted the lord he was at the bars a lot. It has definately gotten better. My problem is in the past he has hurt me by going out so much and I always heard rumurs. I never found any of them to be true, but they are always in the back of my head. I don't think he should leave his family to go out to the bars. I need some advice. In my eyes bars are for single people looking to hook up.Should my christian boyfriend be hanging out in bars and leaving me and the kids at home.?
he shouldn't be at the bar. he should be with you and the kids.
he should definitly stay with the family and spend time with you...spending time with the kids is very importantShould my christian boyfriend be hanging out in bars and leaving me and the kids at home.?
Unless he's going to the bars to drink water and speak Gods word....he shouldn't be there. Plain and simple.....
Perhaps he is looking for a hook up; time for you guys to have a heart to heart talk.Should my christian boyfriend be hanging out in bars and leaving me and the kids at home.?
Perhaps a talk with your pastor would be appropriate. On the surface I agree with the others here that he should not be going to bars. Addictions are a hard thing to conquer even as a Christian with the Lord's help. Encourage him to talk with a male friend in church (mature in the Lord). Encourage him to participate in Promise Keepers (that has changed many a man's life). Get him New Man magazine (Christian magazine for men). Check out the resources from Focus on the Family (family.org). Of course, the most important thing for you to do is to pray for him and pray together. If your relationship is based on God and you are both trying to live for God with all that implies, God can work miracles in his life. We're with you--expect God to work a miracle--He does!!
first thing if your both are christians you should think about getting married its a sin to be living together and not be married. and i thing you both should go and talk to your pastor about your bf going to bars maybe he can help your bf.
Anyone have a problem with a Christian having pre-marital sex?? Sorry, didn't mean any offense but you did make an effort to point out 'Christian' and what exactly makes one sin greater than the other? If he can sex without being married then why can't he go to a bar?



Maybe the question you should be asking is "Should I stay with my boyfriend who claims to be a Christian but will not marry me?" From your post I am assuming that the children are both yours and his, you mentioned that you have been together for 6 years, playing "house"??? It's fun to play married but not actually be married?

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