No, its not right, but I imagine it happens more than one thinks.
Not only is he setting a bad example, but he is exposing her to argument and insults, that probably wouldn't occur if he wasn't drunk.
I know because I lived it myself... My father drank heavily for the better part of my childhood years. I was scared to death of him when he was drunk, because he was very unpredictable when he was drunk, as most people are.
I spent years saying that I would not drink when I grew up, but you know what happened?? I became just like him.
By the time I was 19, I was well-known in bars he himself had frequented and often was racing to make it home before he did, because I was still afraid of him.
The best thing is to let her know that people who drink tend to say things when they are drunk that they normally wouldn't and best to let anything he says when he is drunk go in one ear and out the other. Definitely not worth arguing with a drunk.
If the incident occurred just once, it's OK, meaning that he'll realize his mistake when sober again.
If that happens on a regular basis, I think it's a problem.Do you think it's right for a father to come home drunk from bars in front of his teen daughter?
Him doing that is calling the kettle black now isn't it?
If he's going out and getting loaded then coming back home to his kids to begin with he's a loser. Not to mention a miserable drunk.
Seems he needs someone larger than him to perhaps smack the meaning of "a good person" into him
For her sake, I hope she doesn't believe a word that comes out of his disgusting mouth
my dad was an hard core drinker and i saw that crap all the time no its not right and it really sucks you have to deal with it but keep your head up the best is to just chill in your room away from him and just remember you are almost old enough to get out of there good luck and keep your head up don't listen to a thing he saysDo you think it's right for a father to come home drunk from bars in front of his teen daughter?
no thats a terrible thing, whether you are the mother or the daughter something needs to be done, its not fair on the teenage girl and its very destructive for her development. She will probably develop a bad image of men from this and may even end up marrying an alcoholic because of this. Get this dealt with immediately.
No, but it happens often.
Definately not a good role model. I x-rayed some jerk(drunk) who acted like a obnoxious teen with a attitude. His 16yr old daughter was the only one with any maturity at all. Sad when the kid has to be a parent to the parent.
night shift x-ray tech
no,its a bad situation for all
No, it is not right for a father to do this. Actually, it isn't right that he is sitting in a bar drinking at all. Alcoholism is a disease. Worse than that, those of us that are sober have to put up with the stupidity that freely flows out of the mouths of the drunk.
No thats very bad, for both of them and for the entire family.
NO NOT AT ALL. SO DISGUSTING.
No way. What a great way to destroy his daughter's opinion of him.
no it is not good. he is setting a bad example for her. if you know that he went out to drink, you and your daughter might have the good idea of going away for the night so you both aren't there when he gets home
Nope. Drinking is not neccessarily wrong until you get drunk. It ruins people and their bodies. And it hurts daughters' feelings.
No, who would think that's okay?
First of all, we're talking about a disease. The guy is an alcoholic and cannot help this behavior. It is best to just deal with it or face the possibility of beatings. If he leaves bottles of liquor around the house, put a few drops of Visine in the bottle - that will show the bastard.
Who would think that's right? I think it's best for the dad to cut down on the drinking, and the daughter to think about an intervention if he doesn't.
Of course it is NOT okay. Unfortunately it happens alot more then it should! If you are the daughter or the friend or whatever you are to this person whom is getting treated like this. Talk to him when he is sober if he ever is and tell him if that don't work go to someone and get him help or get yourself or her out of that situation! Hope I could help and good luck!
No, I think he's setting a bad example ?
That's ridiculous! It's called CHILD ABUSE. Get with the program. It will next become physical. Why are so many people so ignorant.
No it is not right, he will be influencing her that when she is of legal age that over drinking is okay. This man must stop and get help with his binge drinking so he and his daughter can have a normal existence. When she is of legal age then she can enjoy meeting her friends and having a social few drinks without getting plastered. Boys like girls who have social etiquette
That sucks big time...there are 2 kind of drunks, happy and mean, the mean ones are hard to take...just let it roll off your back like water off a ducks back...when you are 18 move out.
You could deal with him never coming home for days or getting killed in an accident; it ain't right but there are worse alternatives. AA has a group for family of alcoholics give them a call.
Absolutely not! If you are in this relationship you need to get out!
Of course not! That's wrong and father like that must have responsibility!
His teen daughter can learn it from him. That's a really shame!
I don't think it is right, but unfortunately it is a very normal occurance. That is really sad to hear he puts her down though.
no not normal, not a very good example is it, and for putting the teenager down is asking for trouble, kick it in the *** now before he does some damage
No. Unfortunately this often is the case with alcoholics.
Not at all
well thats one stupid father... what kind of example can he give?... if he comes home drunk lock him out!!! hehehe
Yes, and he should also be sporting a trenchcoat with nothing on underneath it.
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