First, I'm not sure if you're being honest with yourself. If he's a grown man, chances are that he made it home safely, and doesn't need you to check up on him, that's what his mother is for.
Second, stop letting him know that you made it home safely, he doesn't need to know your every move, and chances are that he doesn't care. He's not your daddy.
Third, there's one of three things happening here:
1. He's becoming resentful because you need to know his every move (you're acting like his mother, and that IS NOT SEXY)
2. He thinks that you don't trust him, and that's pissing him off
3. He's cheating (I'm betting on this one), I'm a firm believer that people who are trustworthy don't give any reason to believe that they aren't.
I think you should try talking to him first and don't be mad.. If he keeps on changing the subject than you have every rights to be upset and let him know that you are upset..
However, if he's still not interested in solving the problems with you, then i think this man got affairs or not really commited to you. On the other hand, if he tells you he doesnt wanna do it, may be he doesnt want too much drama (Guy's freedom). Don't push him, why would you wanna push someone who's not willing to do it right? just let it be and take it to your limit.
Good luck ;)He never calls after he gets home from the bars!?
Make it very clear that what he's doing is not OK with you. Don't let him just change the subject on you. Let him know it's important to you because you care about him and want to know that he's safe. Ask him how he'd feel if you went out and didn't call him to let him know you were fine? In fact, if he keeps it up and you want to drill the point home, go out and don't call him when you get home. See how he likes it.
He doesn't call because he is drunker than a skunk. I'm sure that he is cheating on you. Long distance relationships, especially in different countries will not be a success. Your best bet is to be his friend and you need to get out and date someone that has a real face, a real personality and not computer faked.He never calls after he gets home from the bars!?
I agree with Nick. (below) I am a heavy drinker and when i go home after drinking all that is in my mind is making it home and getting my butt to sleep. Don't be mad about it.
If it really bothers you talk to him calmly without attacking him. Tell him you just worry alot.
i also understand you
Get another boyfriend. He doesn't call because he has brought some girl home with him.
he is probably drunk and only wants to go to bed
but seriously
if this is an issue for you, then being in another country is probably not such a good idea
He's cheating on you.
I wouldn't jump to any conclusions but I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. It is a bit questioning .
excuise me: he IS cheating... else he wouldn't go to bars that often.
How do you know he's not cheating on you?
somethings not right..specially, knowing that you'll get worry...
he doesn't understand how will you feel, and he doesnt even
want to bring that subj....i think you should forget him....
b/c he is prob drunk and more worried about sleep then calling plp
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